I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. Thinking this would help. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. The 12th house person often has difficulty seeing the true nature of the planet and in the extreme this person might actually encourage you to become your own worst enemy. Tense aspects can be difficult to overcome. inscryption cards. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. Just not every second. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. What does it mean, and how does it affectthings? . Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. Will this ever end!?!?? The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. Years ago i was dating someone whom i had the same aspect with. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . Sigh.. It's strange that i always dream about him. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. Hi, Heather. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. Generally when venus is other persons 12th house, its effect depends on is Venus strong by sign? No he is the Venus in Cancer. It's much like a therapist/patient relationship. Spirtual, Telepathic, Emotionally, Karmic, & Soulful. Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. I trust everything happens for a reason! I dream of him a lot. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. They may support you financially. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. His Venus squares my Vertex. I don't know. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). Venus in Twelfth House Meaning in Synastry When someone's Venus falls in another person's twelfth house, the planet person acts as a magical entity that activates the house person's imagination and inspires subconscious romantic feelings. There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. The same potential is there with composite charts and a lot of 12th house emphasis. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. His Mars is conjunct my Moon and North Lunar Node which made it all the more compelling; his Neptune/Scorpio (which is Retrograde) is conjunct my 5th House Venus, and his Uranus and Pluto fall in my 3rd House where my IC is. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. I think anyway 12th house is involved. I have known that this house related to karmic connection. He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. He could not and cannot change . and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. Her Venus is in my 12th house. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" From all levels! Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. He makes me breakdown so many barriers. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. One is Taurus and the other is Libra. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. I feel like he's not being completely honest with me and himself about how he feels about me. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Cause he had to be free. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. and in only one instance where the connection has lasted throughout many years with us now being friends, of sorts. Two+ years in most cases (which makes me want to just go HIDE in my bed under the covers, lol!) :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. The person whose Venus is in the 8th house of their partner adores their partner very much. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? What I have found in common is that they both were very aggressive, affectionate and attached to me at the beginning, but once after, i state to feel I dont know them or what their true intentions are, and left me somehow insecure and confused. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. i did not have any dreams of them. but they just made it private. Im stuck. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. Lol. My Moon quincunx his Moon. We have opposite rising signs. It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. You will not regret it. My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. He understands me in a very deep level. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. I know it sounds crazy. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). Hi Aida! And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. But I was raised by a Sun/Scorpio mother (with her Moon in Sagittarius) and Virgo ASC. Me and my fianc has this. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. thus I didnt want to be like him. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. Can you tell me whats really going on here? From the start. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. What he did to you was cowardly. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. I have recently encountered a gentleman whose Gem Sun, Mercury, Tau Mars and North Node falls in my 12th. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. SPOOKY!! Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Wow! It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. I have had a couple of encounters in which I felt bad vibes but the others were unbelievably psychic and strangely accepting and confessional, I personally really like this house but I also know quite a few that have had very poor experiences, so the negative does need to be warned. You might also note that he has Venus/Gemini very problematic, IMO! They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. Hi GeminiRising! Ill blink and its 1am. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. Sent 5 times a week. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. Just cant get past my Gemini obsessions, I guess. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. Hi, Name Again. Lol. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. It is a hard process . I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. Not in a bad way though. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. why am I'm alone. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. You say hes your EX-best friend. We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other? Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. Hi Aida! Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. Sounds karmic or so I think. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. This house offers the opportunity to discover these things so we can let them go and live a life with less baggage and more happiness. I finally got totally turned off from him and just decided to forget him and put as much distance I could between us, physically, mentally and spiritually. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. That 12th house is a tricky one, and both charts would be helpful in sorting through all that. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. Now i know why. Hi Aida! I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. Hi, Feeling. But I guess with the 12th house influence I may never know. Is your 12th house tenanted then? Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. There is a guy with his scorpio stellium (venus, moon, and pluto) in my 12th house, with his venus/pluto conjunct my Asc/pluto. His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. You are using an out of date browser. If it's a night chart, Venus is more powerful and the strongest benefic in the chart. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! And thats when he disappeared. but I CAN (4-Sag placement, counting the PF), and thus I DID. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. =). A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 I thaught his strange behavior had something to do with this. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. When we are having a nightmare we have to face immense fears. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person.
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